I USED to always criticise my wife for excess packing for trips out of Bahrain. Most partners have behaviour traits that irritate us. In my Victor Meldrew years, I was worse, but I’ve recently suffered the unexpected loss of my wife, just a few weeks short of our golden wedding.
Oh, what I would give to have all those little irritations back again! I wish I had been more demonstrative in conveying my true feelings to my dear wife. I would advise everyone to show more appreciation to their partner. Maybe a peck on the cheek, cuddle or words of thanks for undertaking a little task.
Annoying habits are part of a personality. I would even welcome her loud snoring if I could have my wife back with me again.